insya Allah, it will heal

This post is actually for my dearest friend who is trying to fall out of love.I know it's hard.real hard.ha ha ha. no one ever said it would be easy, but it is something you can do or at least tryyyyy:)

so my dear friendo, this is some tips I found in the internet, and some based on my experience.might help you a bit

1.Take your time. You won't fall out of love in a week, two weeks or even a month. Slowly and as each day passes though, you'll begin to think about that person less and less. Understand that the feelings may never fade completely. You felt close to this person at one point in your life, and while you can eventually realize emotionally that you've grown apart, you will probably always have a soft spot for him . At some point, it may be possible to remain friends, but mind the boundaries and don't let your heart fall back into it.

2. Remind yourself of all those horrible things he did and said over the course of your relationship and in particular during the breakup. The more you focus on the bad things, the easier it will be to fall out of love. Realize that the person you're in love with completely broke your trust by giving up and walking away from you. Every day remember how this made you feel and force yourself to think about that rather than the good times.he he.i know laaa like jahat gila right?but just try it until your feelings neutral balik

3. Keep away from him and avoid running into him out and about. Change up your routine by shopping at new stores and with friends. The last thing you want is to run right into him with someone new when you're still hurting.

4. Clean your house and get rid of anything that reminds you of him. Put everything in a box and tuck it away in a closet somewhere. Include absolutely everything that makes you think of him, no matter how hard it might be.

5. Nobody is perfect. The longer you hold on to the idea that this person is perfect, the harder it'll be to get on with your life. It's completely possible that you're idealizing someone just so that you can have a fantasy to hold on to. You should accept that this person is not perfect, and definitely not perfect for you, because the perfect person for you would think as highly of you as you do of them

6. pray to Allah that you will forget him, someday. this is the easist way

hope this can help you.trust me, you deserve better than to be someone's back-up between flings, and/or ego trip my dear.

good luck:)